Elvis tells the story of the church swingers party that almost was, and the crew dives into the rules of the Lifestyle—some that are meant to be broken and others that are tried and true. To kiss or not to kiss, “no means no,” and “tell me when you go to play” are all hot topics.
They also talk about something every couple new to the Lifestyle should consider: if either one of you is still unsure, uncomfortable, or simply not ready, a party probably isn’t the best place to figure it out. Get on the same page with each other first, talk about boundaries and expectations, and save the party for when you’re both genuinely ready to enjoy it.
And because apparently they didn’t learn enough the first time around, the crew digs up a few more salacious rounds of Never Have I Ever—leading to some answers that probably should have stayed private.